Refuse to allow circumstances steal your joy! Time doesn’t heal emotional pain, you need to learn how to let go. If you look up to others for joy and happiness, you may never find it. You deserve to be happy and have a life you are excited about.
Part of the reason for the way people turn out differently has to do with the values they develop for their lives and the way they see life and respond to life. Nobody will make you happy until you’re happy with yourself first. If you don’t like yourself, you can’t make a success out of yourself and you can’t like someone else because you can’t give what you don’t have.
You can still be happy during the process of achieving something. God never attached your joy to something or someone; your joy is in Him. Happiness is a choice not a result. Deal with worries before they deal with your happiness.